REALLY GREAT PEOPLE

“Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions.  Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.”

Quote by Mark Twain

REFLECTION:

  • Who in your life makes you feel great?
  • Who belittles your ambitions in your life?
  • How can you ensure you tune out the small people and turn up the volume of people who make you feel great?

ANGER

“Anger is a bodyguard for hurt.”  

To be angry is so much more accepted than actually being vulnerable.  When our heart is hurt, struggling to find an acceptable way to express it can be challenging.  For men it is much more acceptable to show anger.  Women are often conditioned not to show the same kind of anger that is ok for men to express.  Such gender conditioning around expressing emotions is deeply ingrained.   

Yet if it is just a coverup for true hurt, how can this shift? 

Quote by Lama Rod Owens – a Buddhist Minister, Black activist and author of Love and Rage: The Path of Liberation through Anger.  And my thoughts… 🙂

REFLECTION:

  • Can you unpack something that is making you very angry?  If you examine it on a deeper level, is it hurt at its core?  Or a fear you have of loss? What is it?
  • How can you tell the truth and be vulnerable to express what is really going on with you?

WINNERS

“Losers live in the past.  Winners learn from the past and enjoy working in the present toward the future.”

Quote by Denis Waitley – Motivational Speaker 87 years old! (AND… a graduate from the U.S. Naval Academy)

REFLECTION:

  • Do you live in the past?
  • What did you learn from the past that you can use in the present?
  • Make a list of past lessons learned and how they can help you now.
  • How can they pull you to the future you want.