When I dwell in that place of remembering who I am, I can think a new thought to move through the mess I’ve made. It’s like spilling milk on the kitchen floor, then standing wondering why I created such a mess or what I can do is decide what new tool can I use in this moment to clean up my mess – “Oh, a mop might work now and I clean up the mess.”
Examine your reluctance for conflict… you have become overly adept at avoiding conflict or conflictual feelings in your own heart and yet were you to allow yourself to feel even a small measure of something that you feel in conflict about, and express it, it would serve to bring a greater spark to your relationship. You have the idea that good is smooth and yet we say the good is rich and that means smooth and rocky and many other things in between. Look at your patterns and become willing to address it in small bits and pieces. This more than anything will help the relationship to spark again….
Channeled reading by Martha Snyder
REFLECTION
Do you have a relationship that needs a “spark” again?
Is there a conflict you have been avoiding for fear of a rocky road? Define it.
How can you express the conflectual feelings you have with the person your are in a relationship with now?
“There is a cry from all of Creation for a claiming of the ones who dwell in the darkness. And they huddle in the cold and wrap themselves in the tattered rags of their riches and their indifference and their power. And they are starving at their banquet tables heaped high with the illusion of plenty.”
Close to Home by Erin Caldwell
REFLECTION:
What kind of “banquet table”are you seated at today?
Does your life project an “illusion of plenty” yet you are starving at the table?
If yes, is this how you want to live? What can you do to begin to transform your life to one you love living?
If you are loving your current “banquet table”, make a list of things you are grateful for.