OPEN YOUR HANDS

Do you have a stubborn grip or an open hand?

There is an ancient story from China that tells of the way traps were set for monkeys.

” A coconut was hollowed out through an opening that was cut to the size of a monkey’s open hand.  Rice was then placed in the carved-out fruit which was left in the path of the monkeys.  Sooner or later, a hungry monkey would smell the rice and reach his hand in.  But once fisting the rice, its hand could no longer fit back out through the opening.  The monkeys that were caught were were those who would not let go of the rice.

As long as the monkey maintained its grip on the rice, it was a prisoner of its own making.  The trap worked because the monkey’s hunger was the master of its reach.”

FROM: BOOK OF AWAKENING Having the Life You Want by Being Present to the Life you Have by Mark Nep0

REFLECTION:

  • What is your rice?  Is there something you are gripping and fisting that you need to let go of?  What is it?

  • What is preventing you from letting go?

  • What step can you take to open your hand (and heart)?

THINKING OF OTHERS….

Humility is not thinking less of yourself but thinking of yourself less.

Quote from C.S. Lewis from his book MERE CHRISTIANITY

REFLECTION:

  • How can you think about others today?
  • What will you do for another today?

PRAISE FOR ANOTHER

Praise is like sunlight to warm the human spirit; we cannot flower and grow without it.  And yet, while most of us are only too ready to apply to others the cold wind of criticism, we are some how reluctant to give our fellow the warm sunshine of praise.  

Quote from book by Jess Lair  I AIN’T MUCH, BABY BUT I’M ALL I GOT   

REFLECTION:

  • STOP … THINK…who can I offer the warm sunshine of praise to today? 
  • What will you say to warm their human spirit? 
  • Now, go do it!