It’s not easy to say, “I was wrong.” And so people live in stress, sticking with something that used to work longer than they’re comfortable with. Our challenges in shifting perspective keep us stuck in the past. These decisions we can’t unmake, but they don’t have to be forever commitments. One way forward is to rename this moment and change the story. Instead of “I was wrong,” perhaps it’s useful (if less satisfying to others seeking victory) to say, “It’s time to make a new decision based on new information.” That’s not weakness. That’s not flip-flopping or even embarrassing. That’s practical, resilient and generous.
Seth Godin’s Blog
REFLECTION:
- It is often very difficult for people to say “I was wrong… I’m sorry.” What if you could say, “Based on new information, I’m going to make a different decision.” How would that shift a relationship that has been locked in conflict?
- Try it… let me know.