The real enemies of our life are the ‘oughts’ and the ‘ifs.’ They pull us backward into the unalterable past and forward into the unpredictable future. But real life takes place in the here and now.
Quote by Henri Nouwen Henri Jozef Machiel Nouwen (1932 – 1996) was a Dutch Catholic priest, professor, writer and theologian. His interests were rooted primarily in psychology, pastoral ministry, spirituality, social justice and community.
REFLECTION:
- What ‘oughts” and “ifs” do you say… or replay in your inner thoughts?
- What percentage of the time do you live in the past? In the future?
- How can you “Be Here Now?”
- What do you need to do to live in this present moment?