Learning is slowed less by lack of intelligence than by reluctance to let go of bankrupt ideas and exhausted ways of seeing. The object of your blame will always prove to be less of an obstacle than your decision to blame.
From: A LITTLE BOOK OF FORGIVENESS By D. Patrick Miller
REFLECTION:
- What bankrupt ideas have you been holding on to?
- Is there an object of your blame?
- Are you willing to see them differently? How can you do that?