THE BIG QUESTION

ONE DAY or DAY ONE?  You decide!

Quote discovered and shared by Rev. Amy Richter as she and her husband were hiking in Newfoundland Labrador, Canada

REFLECTION:

  • What day is it for you?
  • Is there some “one day” in your life that you have lived? 
  • How can you shift to “day one”?

Self-importance

Self-importance is our greatest enemy.  Think about it- what weakens us is feeling offended by the deeds and misdeeds of our fellowmen.  Our self-importance requires that we spend most of our lives offended by someone.

FROM:  Carlos Castañeda’s book The Fire From Within

Carlos Castañeda was a Peruvian-American author. Starting with The Teachings of Don Juan in 1968, Castaneda wrote a series of books that purport to describe training in shamanism that he received under the tutelage of a supposed Yaqui “Man of Knowledge” named don Juan Matus. He wrote a total of 15 books.  His works helped define the 1960’s and usher in the New Age movement. 

REFLECTION:

  • How self-important do you think you are?
  • Are there deeds/misdeeds of others that you are offended by right now?
  • Examine you self-importance in relation to feeling offended by someone. What shift you can make?

Making A Difference… Making A Point

Change comes about when the story the other person tells themselves begins to change.  If all you do is make a point, you’ve handed them a story about yourself.  When you make a change, you’ve helps them embrace a new story about themselves.  And even though it’s more fun (and feels safe, in some way) to make a point, if we really care, we’ll do the hard work to make a difference instead.

FROM:  Seth Godin’s Daily Blog titled Making a difference (making a point).

REFLECTION:

  • When speaking with someone, do you try to make a point or make a difference?
  • What story are you telling yourself?
  • What story are you telling others?
  • How can you embrace a new story about yourself or another you are in relationship with?
  • Explore the possibility of making a difference.