ALL IMPERFECT…

When someone makes an obvious mistake, it’s tempting to label them with a term that’s dismissive or even hurtful.  A label is permanent, a noun, a way to sort and divide.  But of course, others can say precisely the same thing about us when we were uninformed, selfish or in a hurry.  If it’s permanent, then it’s all of us.  Perhaps instead of “you are a mistake,” it might be more accurate to say you “you made a mistake.”  Starting from the place that we’re all imperfect makes it easy to find empathy, for others and ourselves.

Seth Godin’s Blog – titled “We are all goofballs”

REFLECTION:

  • How do you react to mistakes – yours or ones others make?
  • Are you quick to label others?
  • Can you shift from “you are a mistake” to “you made a mistake?”
  • Can you find empathy for yourself and others?

ASHAMED or PROUD

Stop being ashamed of how many times you have fallen and start being proud of how many times you have gotten up.

Author unknown

REFLECTION:

  • Do you focus on the things you are ashamed of?  That negative self-talk that reminds you of your failures, indiscretions, mistakes?
  • What are you proud of?
  • How many times have you ‘gotten up?’
  • Today, focus on your getting up!

BE KIND AND HELP!

‘We are not all in the same boat.  We are in the same storm.  Some of us are on super -yachts, some of us have just one oar.’ Just be kind and help whoever you can.

Adapted, Damian Barr

REFLECTION:

  • So many people are having very different experiences despite all being on this planet… some on yachts… some drowning.
  • Who can you be kind to today?
  • Who can you help today?