When we win by having someone else lose, we set up a conflict. It’s clear, direct but not generative. But when we win by confronting our fear, everyone benefits. Often, people who choose to battle others are actually better off looking at their fear instead.
Quote from Seth Godin’s Daily Blog
REFLECTION:
- Do you try to “win” arguments?
- Is there a conflict you continue to engage in regularly?
- Can you examine the fear behind it? What is the fear?